Lasting Relationships
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Monday, August 19, 2019
Values in Self and Healthy Relationships
This is an attraction that struck a chord since it affected both your emotions and mental intellect upon meeting this person. The point here is that your mate likely agreed with you on the initial meeting, which encouraged you to start up a relationship. According to theorists, if your mate had of disagreed with you on the initial meeting, likely you would be in another relationship.
This concludes that to establish healthy relationships we must have some harmony, systematic structure and balance to cultivate a healthy relationship. It does not, however, include the process of developing a healthy self, although some of the same approaches apply.
We must join our body and mind to work in harmony in a systematic setting to achieve balance. By achieving balance, we can see things at many angles, rather center in on negative factors that get in the way of our progress.
Therefore, it is reasonable to say that we must use techniques that encourage the body and mind to work together to improve health. For this reason, many philosophers are encouraging guided relaxation, meditation, subliminal learning, and other natural methods. We still need mobility. That is the muscles require that we stay active to keep the body healthy. This does not mean that you work the muscles around the clock; rather you set up a three-day routine that includes exercise. Exercising the body will lead to good health both mentally and physically.
When you exercise the body, it builds your self-esteem, confidence and gives you a degree of inner peace. You start to enjoy relaxation more willingly, which clears up space for you to practice meditation or subliminal learning effectively. Ultimately, combining the three natural practices will arrive you at the healthy self. At this point, you can give more attention to your relationships, and work to create a healthy association with others.
How does meditation work?
First, you want to find a calm area where you do not have any distractions. Perhaps your bedroom is one of the calmest areas in your home, which is suitable for meditation. Be sure to tell your friends, family, and partner that you intend to meditate at a set time so that they do not disturb you. If your friends or partner disturb you despite you asked them not to, and there is no emergency involved, perhaps you will benefit by finding other relationships that respect your decisions.
Once you are in the calm area, lie back on your bed or couch. You can also meditate outdoors, yet you want to find a place where distractions are minimal. Once you are in position, you can either close your eyes or zoom in on some object that you find interesting. For example, you can focus on a picture on the wall, or a tree if you are outdoors. Continue to focus on that object until your mind begins to open up. You may feel some tension at first, but continue since this is a natural response to meditation, especially if you are not custom to this practice. Your mind and body are learning to adapt to something refreshing.
Now that you are focused and your mind is available to allow you entry, go inside your mind. Instead of repressing thoughts and feelings, allow them to go freely. Let them out in the open. Do not be afraid, since these feelings and thoughts are trying to tell you something that you must know to create a healthy self. Take some time to examine your feelings and thoughts closely. You can continue the procedure up to 20-30 minutes or longer if necessary.
Wednesday, April 17, 2019
Lasting Relationships: Stress in Relationships and Healthy Self
Stress in Relationships and Healthy Self
A number of the best methods to reduce unmovable stress is thru meditation, which encourages your mind and body to relax.
Subliminal learning is one strategy to work toward a wholesome you, but additionally, you will do physical workout routines to make sure that your body stays match and healthy.
Stress can wear down your nerves and stress your mind to the point that you start to develop diseases, reminiscent of depression.
Stress can become in many health issues.
It makes it simpler after we are in a position to reduce stress to find the inner self and work to enhance its health.
All the time keep in mind that you have the facility to alter you, but you wouldn’t have the ability to vary anybody else.
Tuesday, March 5, 2019
Lasting Relationships: 5 Relationship Killers and How to Avoid Them
5 Relationship Killers and How to Avoid Them
CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR
Most people enter a relationship with a deep fear of rejection, and this fear motivates various forms of controlling behavior. Controlling behavior falls into two major categories overt control and covert control.
Overt control includes many forms of attack, such as blaming anger, rage, violence, judgment, criticism, and ridicule.
Covert control includes compliance, enabling, withdrawal, defending, explaining, lying and denying. Often a person at the other end of attack will respond with some form of covert control in an attempt to have control over not being attacked.
Controlling behavior always results in resentment and emotional distance, bringing about the very rejection that it is meant to avoid.
RESISTANCE
Many people enter a relationship with a deep fear of being engulfed and controlled of losing themselves. The moment they experience their partner wanting control over them, they respond with resistance withdrawal, unconsciousness, numbness, forgetfulness, and procrastination.
When one partner is controlling and the other is resistant which is really an attempt to have control over not being controlled - the relationship becomes immobilized. Partners in this relationship system feel frustrated, stagnant, and resentful.
NEEDINESS
Many people enter a relationship believing that it is their partner's job to fill their emptiness, take away their aloneness, and make them feel good about themselves. When people have not learned how to take responsibility for their own feelings and needs and to define their own self-worth, they may pull on their partner and others to fill them with the love they need.
SUBSTANCE AND PROCESS ADDICTIONS
Most people who feel empty inside turn to substance and process addictions in an attempt to fill their emptiness and take away the pain of their aloneness and loneliness. Alcohol and drug abuse, food, spending, gambling, busyness, Internet sex and pornography, affairs, work, TV, accumulating things, beautifying, and so on, can all be used as ways to fill the emptiness and avoid fears of failure, inadequacy, rejection, and engulfment. And they are all ways of shutting out your partner.
EYES ON PARTNER'S PLATE
Many people are acutely aware of what their partner is doing that is causing relationship problems, but completely unaware of what they are doing. For example, you might be very aware of your partner's resistance or withdrawal, but totally unaware of your own judgmental behavior. You might be very aware of your partner's anger, but completely unaware of your own compliance. You might be very aware of your partner's addictive behavior, but very unaware of your own enabling. As long as your eyes are on your partner instead of on yourself, you will continue to believe that if only your partner changed, everything would be okay.
RESOLVING RELATIONSHIP KILLERS
All relationship killers come from fear of inadequacy, of failure, of rejection and of engulfment. As long as you are coming from any of these fears, you will be behaving in one or more of the above ways.
The way out is to develop a loving adult self who knows how to take full responsibility for your own feelings and needs. You will move beyond controlling, needy and addictive behavior only when you learn how to fill your self with love and define your own inner worth. When you are willing to take your eyes off your partner's plate and turn your eyes fully on yourself, you can begin to do the inner healing work necessary to heal yourself and your relationship.
A good place to start is to download our free Inner Bonding course and begin to practice the Six Steps of Inner Bonding. The daily practice of these steps will move you out of your addictive and controlling behavior and into the personal responsibility necessary to heal your relationship.